This is the continuation of an earlier post about a Bible study in which I’m facilitating and participating.
But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. ~ Matthew 6:33
The Comparison Trap: Week Three, Day Seven … Some of my reminders and my takeaways from the daily devotional include:
My takeaway is short and sweet today: When we worry, it’s often because we don’t trust God enough.
Someone once shared that concept with me, and it’s just stuck. If we’re seeking His Kingdom and His righteousness (the condition or state we’re in that is approved of and acceptable to God), then we will be in a place where worry won’t be necessary. If we’re seeking His Kingdom and His righteousness, we’ll know and trust that He’s got control over what I can’t control.
Sandra says “worry is a crutch for things we can’t control.”
Have you ever tried to walk with one crutch? It’s awkward. You feel lopsided.
When we worry, we aren’t trusting God to take care of the circumstances. Worry is lopsided. Worry is a crutch, and it makes life unbalanced and uneven.
This is the continuation of an earlier post about a Bible study in which I’m facilitating and participating.
But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. ~ 1 Timothy 6:6-8
The Comparison Trap: Week Three, Day Six … Some of my reminders and my takeaways from the daily devotional include:
Tonight, I had the chance to speak with him on the phone, and he was solemn. He shared some highlights from his day, and I shared some from mine, but there was something else going on.
I asked him about it, and he said, “Despite everything in here,
I have a lot to be grateful for.”
He went on to tell me that someone he had shared games of chess and conversations with so many times, someone he’d shared family stories with, someone he’d roomed with on two occasions while in different cell blocks, someone he had just sat with at lunch yesterday had passed away last night.
His friend (friends are hard to come by in prison), had died a few hours after the two of them had shared a meal together. He was 61. He had food and clothing, as all the inmates do, but I wonder about the struggle to find gratefulness or contentment in a place like that when one has no control over much of anything in their daily life.
My takeaway has nothing to do with today’s devotional, but it has everything to do with being grateful for all we are given.
It’s easy to say that my blessings are many since my days aren’t spent in a prison or not knowing who to trust. To compare my life to that would be to fall into the comparison trap.
Yet, I can allow it to remind me that living a life of gratefulness leads to contentment. I don’t have to be thankful or content based on someone else’s shortcomings, issues, or challenges, but on finding the contentment in what I do have … in my family, friends, my gifts, my time, my talents and the treasures I hold dear, because they are connected to people or places which have impacted my life.
“The shortcut to contentment is gratitude.”
Be grateful today.
This is the continuation of an earlier post about a Bible study in which I’m facilitating and participating.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. ~ Psalm 139:16
The Comparison Trap: Week Three, Day Five … Some of my reminders and my takeaways from the daily devotional include:
Sandra starts today’s devotional with her favorite verse from the 139th Psalm (above), as she encourages each of us to think, individually, in the context of:
“God isn’t just aware of me. He created me thoughtfully and laid out a plan for my life.”
Can you just breathe that in for a moment? A couple of times … because it’s just too important to miss!
I don’t really understand all the “why” behind the things He’s chosen for my life and “why” He’s allowed me to experience certain joys and certain heartaches.
What I am understanding as my relationship with Him grows, is that it all has a plan and a purpose. It’s His plan and purpose (which I don’t understand much of the time), but within the glimpses of His plan (where He allows me to see some of the beginning and end happenings), I’m pretty awed at how He works His supernatural wonders in my life.
I want to believe that His blessings for me are unlimited, but that the agonizing moments do have their limits. I want to believe that His plan for me is unique and one of a kind. I want to believe that when He doesn’t answer my prayers, that the reason He doesn’t is because He actually has something better in mind for me.
I want to believe.
I want to have faith.
God’s plans for me are different from His plans for you. Envy, jealousy, and an inability to celebrate another’s blessings happen because we find it difficult to trust in the individual plans He has for us. Culture doesn’t help matters, either. Culture demands we keep up with the “Jones” family, and that our fast-food, just-google-it, prime-delivery society give us what we want, now.
Sandra encourages that “today’s verse reminds you that if you’re busy glancing to the left and right, jealous of someone else’s plan, you’ll miss the perfect one He’s written just for you.”
Look up, and allow Him to lead you toward your unique plan.
And while you’re at it, breathe in the rest of this beautiful Psalm, truly knowing He does have a plan for each of us:
1 O Lord, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. 2 You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. 3 You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. 4 You know what I am going to say even before I say it, Lord. 5 You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head. 6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me, too great for me to understand!
7 I can never escape from your Spirit! I can never get away from your presence! 8 If I go up to heaven, you are there; if I go down to the grave,you are there. 9 If I ride the wings of the morning, if I dwell by the farthest oceans, 10 even there your hand will guide me, and your strength will support me. 11 I could ask the darkness to hide me and the light around me to become night — 12 but even in darkness I cannot hide from you. To you the night shines as bright as day. Darkness and light are the same to you.
13 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. 14 Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous — how well I know it. 15 You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. 16 You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.
17 How precious are your thoughts about me,O God. They cannot be numbered! 18 I can’t even count them; they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up, you are still with me!
19 O God, if only you would destroy the wicked! Get out of my life, you murderers! 20 They blaspheme you; your enemies misuse your name. 21 O Lord, shouldn’t I hate those who hate you? Shouldn’t I despise those who oppose you? 22 Yes, I hate them with total hatred, for your enemies are my enemies.
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. 24 Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
This is the continuation of an earlier post about a Bible study in which I’m facilitating and participating.
Then he said to them, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.” ~ Luke 12:15
The Comparison Trap: Week Three, Day Four … Some of my reminders and my takeaways from the daily devotional include:
“We live in a world of accumulation,” begins Sandra.
We do. We crave abundance, and it’s almost scary how often we can catch ourselves thinking of more, more, more.
Sandra goes on to share the verses after the Scripture above. It’s a parable told by Jesus in Luke 12:16-21:
“The ground of a certain rich man yielded an abundant harvest.17 He thought to himself, ‘What shall I do? I have no place to store my crops.’ 18 Then he said, ‘This is what I’ll do. I will tear down my barns and build bigger ones, and there I will store my surplus grain.19 And I’ll say to myself, “You have plenty of grain laid up for many years. Take life easy; eat, drink and be merry.”’ 20 But God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your life will be demanded from you. Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself? 21 This is how it will be with whoever stores up things for themselves but is not rich toward God.’”
There are a few things to note from this parable, outside of the obvious sense of greed and desire to have more:
Verse 16 tells us the man was rich and yielded an abundant harvest while he was rich. Apparently, God had blessed the man. Whether or not the man was a “good” man is irrelevant; God had still given him a gift in the form of abundance.
Verse 18 tells us what was said by the man. Do we read of him giving thanks? Of acknowledging God for the abundance given to him?
Verse 19 tells us what the man desired from his abundance.Does this show his desire to live for God? For others? Or only for himself?
Verse 20 gives us some of the answers to these questions. God calls him a fool. Just in case you are wondering … fool basically means fool in the original language. God wasn’t impressed with what the man decided to do with the blessings God had allowed the man to accumulate.
Sandra’s devotional Challenge for Day Four was to mark some boxes designating some of our abundance.
The boxes I checked in the Day Four Challenge
I’ve visited countries where having just ONE of these line items would be living luxuriously. Some of you have lived in or served in places like that, too. Even so, the trap of comparison keeps us wanting more, doesn’t it?
We’ve been given the blessings in our lives for a reason.
We need to work harder on appreciating those blessings and using them for His purposes, as God often says something different to us than what we are willing to say to ourselves. The richness, wealth and abundance of life does not have to equate to the amount of property, the dollars in our bank account, or the possessions we tend to hold valuable.
“The accumulation of more is a worthless pursuit if what you are accumulating isn’t put to good use for God.”
The material possessions we seek and acquire can’t ever fully satisfy us in comparison to an intimate relationship with God. When we’ve been blessed by Him, it’s imperative that we focus on Him and on how He would call us to use those blessings. Let’s not be a fool.
This is the continuation of an earlier post about a Bible study in which I’m facilitating and participating.
Andrew spoke up,“Here is a boy with five small
barley loaves and two small fish,
but how far will they go among so many?” Jesus said, “Have the people sit down.” There was plenty of grass in that place, and they
sat down (about five thousand men were there). Jesus then took the loaves, gave thanks,
and distributed to those who were seated
as much as they wanted.
He did the same with the fish. When they had all had enough to eat,
he said to his disciples, “Gather the pieces that are
left over. Let nothing be wasted.” So they gathered them and filled twelve baskets
with the pieces of the five barley loaves
left over by those who had eaten.
~ John 6:8-13
The Comparison Trap: Week Three, Day Three … Some of my reminders and my takeaways from the daily devotional include:
For me, this is one of the most powerful devotions in the Comparison Trap study, so far.
I’ve been going through some things in my life … things that are uncomfortable, and circumstances which have pushed me to limits I didn’t know I had. I find hope in the Scripture above, even though the expectant hope and personal application I’ve found in it is somewhat outside the context of the verses.
Here are the three things that stand out the most to me:
“Here is a boy …” He’s a boy. Not a pastor, teacher, businessman, or anyone who might stand out to others. He’s a boy.
“Let nothing be wasted …,” said Jesus. I’ve always known He told the disciples to gather what remained, but I’ve never consciously read those words to the point that they’d stand out, even though my study Bible is an older New International Version (the same as the Scripture above).
God provides, and He turns what we have to offer Him into blessings.
So here are my main takeaways from the three aspects that stand out to me:
I am the boy. You are the boy. Whatever we have to offer Him, he can use. Am I willing to recognize that even a small offering can be a blessing? That He can use it for the good of others? That my faith can grow when I am willing to share the gifts He’s given me?
God wastes nothing. I’ve said this so many times to myself, and I’ve written about it, too. Yesterday, in a weepy breakdown, I just kept repeating this over and over to myself, and here it is in the Scripture today. He’s going to create a way for the broken bits and pieces of my life to be multiplied, shared, and gathered, because He is the One who commands that nothing be wasted.
He’s ready to multiply my faith and turn it into blessings for me and for others. We don’t know the attitude of the boy who offered up his lunch, but we do know what was done with it. I need to keep reminding myself that this life isn’t just about me and my weepy circumstances; it’s about how He can and will use those circumstances for His good if I’m willing to lay them at His feet.
Sandra Stanley asks, “What did it do to the boy’s faith to watch Jesus turn his small offering into a blessing for so many others? What could it do to your faith to watch God do the same with what you can offer?”
She goes on to encourage us to fight the feelings that our little bits could never go far enough, and to instead, trust God to make our bits astoundingly more — immeasurably more, even.
In my weepy moments and in my joyous ones, it’s important for me to remember that He commands nothing be wasted, and that what I have IS less important than what I do with what I have. The impact is made when I’m willing to offer up what I have for Him to use.
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